Showing posts from March, 2019

You Must Expand Your Social Circle

If you're anything like I was in my marriage, I isolated myself when it came to having a social circle, especially male friends. I had a golfing buddy who was single at the time. He was a good looking dude fit dude and had money, so I lived vicariously through him every time we got together for golf. That wasn't a good thing when it came to my marriage as I built up a ton of resentment. That may be a whole other article. Rollo Tomassi  talks about this in all his books that I highly recommend you read. Check out his blog or just go to Amazon and you'll find them all. When a man doesn't hang out with other men he loses his edge. You're giving up that testosterone boost from things that men do together, whether that is a sporting event, hunting, fishing or just hanging out drinking beers. Not having that outlet will be both an emotional drain and physical on you when all you have is your wife and most likely children. I was the provider so it was all on me r

Women Do It...Why Don't You?

If you are a man 50 and above, and you are considering divorce, are separated or are legally divorced I hope you are reading my blog posts where I on my journey as it will be a massive wakeup call for you if you haven't been out in the sexual marketplace for years if not decades like me. I have an Instagram account and I'm quite active in there. Posting fitness pictures of myself, hiking and a little bit of men's fashion. When I post a fitness picture I usually get a couple of women who DM me just to give me a high five for maintaining such a high level of fitness at 55 years of age. I'm constantly guessed to be early to mid-'40s all day long. There is a very pretty, super fit woman in her early 40's from Australia and we've become sort of cyber friends. We DM each other on Instagram and we like all of each other's posts. I am confident if we lived close to each other we'd be dating. She recently started online dating so I was watching and list

How To Avoid Getting Duped By Photoshop Pictures

As much as I feel like a veteran of online dating, I continue to learn something on every date I go on. I've talked before about women who post pictures and show up not looking anything like their pictures. happened to me last night in a big way and I'm going to help you understand how to not let it happen to you. It is a big waste of time and money. Okay...I hope the above picture got your attention as this is what's happening in the online world of dating. Women are getting their pictures photoshopped or using app filters to remove their blemishes and even worse their age lines (wrinkles). Being a fit man, in his mid-50s I'm really looking for women in their early 40's, but the problem with that is they have young kids, and I don't want to be dad again. So lately I've been playing around with my age criteria and trying to find women in their late 40's to early 50's who look fit and healthy. This past week I messaged a couple of

How To Avoid Getting "Fatfished"

I have over 6 months of online dating experience under my belt and I continue to learn all the manipulations women do to get men to respond to their profiles. It has been a timesuck and a huge amount of frustration to say the least, but if I can share my experiences with you to help you avoid this happening, I am more than happy to do it. There is a term online called Catfish .  The definition is:  A  catfish  is someone who creates a false  online  identity. Catfishing is common on social networking and  online dating  sites. Sometimes a  catfish's  sole purpose is to engage in a fantasy. Sometimes, however, the  catfish's  intent is to defraud a victim, seek revenge or commit identity theft. Fatfished I've heard this term one time, and by god it just happened to me the other night. I was messaging a woman I met on a dating site. She proceeded to send me sexy bikini pictures via text. It got pretty heavy and I knew this was looking good. We set up a time to m